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"Staying Focussed"
Sooner or later we reach a point in our karate training where we become stale. We reach a point where training isn't as much fun as what it used to be. When we reach this stage one of two things happen.
Although the intention to return to training "one day" is a good goal, it's usually a self comforting statement so we don't feel guilty or disappointed about giving up. The reality is that most people who "take a break" from their training never make a return no matter how good their intention was initially. There is a saying... "There are two things in life that are the most difficult. The first is getting started. The other is never quitting". There are so many things you would do if you knew you wouldn't fail, but the fear of failing often outweighs the desire to get started! Conversely digging deep in times of hardship and finding something to keep you going is very difficult. (Thomas Edison blew over 3,000 globes before he found one that would stay alight! Did he see this as failure or simply as a challenge? Thank goodness he dug deep and kept on trying!) You've already started karate so you've already made the first step. So now let's explore the reasons why people quit, and find some solutions so that you never have to!
Firstly why did you start karate? For most people it's self defense related, followed closely by wanting to improve their fitness. Then come the other reasons like self discipline, focus and confidence. However after training for some time we get to a stage where each of these needs has been fulfilled. We feel that our training has become monotonous and that we're not getting as much out of it as we used to. We have learned enough self defense to fulfill that desire. We've trained hard enough that our fitness has improved. And as a result of our training, our focus, self discipline and confidence has also risen to new levels. We feel that all of our needs have been fulfilled. In short we have become bored! Uh oh! What is our driver now? If we don't find something else to inspire us to train, it is only a matter of time before complacency sets in and we'll become like 90% of people who start karate.... we'll give up! We didn't start karate to give up did we? No! So what should we do to keep going? Time to find another inspiration! If our initial driver has been fulfilled it's time we found a new one! When choosing a new direction in our training it's important that we choose ONE thing at a time. Choosing multiple things will lead to scattered thoughts, wasted energy and frustration. Choose one new goal and focus on it and it only! This is how you'll get your best results. Take a look at world champions of any sport or people who have reached the pinnacle of success in their line of work. Are they focussed or are they scattered in with their direction? Do they focus all their energy into one thing, or are they only partially doing several things hoping that they all will come to fruition without their full attention? The successful people in this world--whether in sport, business or elsewhere--focus their attention in a single direction and make that one a success before adding other focus points. So where do we look for inspiration? There are several areas of our training where we can find it.
Bruce
Lee had a famous story about a Japanese Zen master and a professor
who wanted to learn Zen. The professor tried to impress the Zen
master with his knowledge and after waiting patiently for him
to finish speaking, offered the professor some tea. He filled
the professor's cup and when it became full, kept pouring. The
professor watched the tea spill onto the table and exclaimed,
"The cup is overfull, no more will go in!" The master
replied "Like the cup, you are full of your own opinions
and speculations. How can I show you Zen unless you first empty
your cup?"* In closing, making sure that you stay motivated is ultimately up to you. As it's often said "You gotta wanna!". Knowing if your heart is still in it is something that only you can answer. If you get stuck for ideas or ways to stay motivated, please consider the few points I've listed above. I'm sure if you dig deep enough you'll find your inspiration and keep your karate training fun and exciting!
* References - Zen in the Martial Arts - Joe Hyams, 1979. ISBN 0-55.-27559-3 |
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